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Nose Job

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A month ago I had a nose job. It was a totally new experience for me. I actually did not know what to expect. I was amused and nervous at the same time. If you are going to have a nose job. It does not matter if it is because you want a prettier nose or you need the surgery to remove a health problem. I’m going to tell you about my experience and some tips that may help. I have to say that I’m not a professional, and this tips and tricks are only things that helped me through my surgery and after it.

GENERAL ADVICE:

1.- If you are a nervous person, you may need general anaesthetic instead of the local one. Why this? Because, you will be able to listen everything the doctor say and the whole process of the nasal reconstruction. Ask your doctor first and expose the situations that you consider important.

2.- Get a nice sleep the night before: You might not be able to sleep the whole previous night, cause the pain is not gonna let you.

3.- Buy a comforting pillow: This is going to help at the sleeping time.

4.- Wearing glasses is not an option: The nose can be more inflamed and the healing process will be slowed down. Instead; try buying some contacts, but remember contacts take time to make, so buy them one or two weeks before the surgery.

5.- Avoid using your phone after and before the surgery. You are going to be tired and using electronic devices is not the best option.

6.- The Hair: Your nose cannot touch water at all, so taking a shower is going to be a challenge. Try not washing your hair daily before the surgery, this can make a huge difference. Cause hair will not be as greasy as if you don’t get used to not washing it.

7.- Put on Arnica: It is a natural remedy for inflammation and it can help to rush the healing process.

8.- To clean the nose use some Q-Tips: carefully grab a q-tip and put it on your nose, moving it in circles slowly and be patient cause it can take a while.

9.- DO NOT BLOW YOUR NOSE: I made this mistake, my nose started bleeding for 7 minutes uncontrollably. Even though you have the need to blow your nose. Do not do it.

10.- In case you blew your nose: Do not move to much, put a gauze on, and it will stop bleeding eventually.

11.- Drink a lot of water: This is a very important thing, try drinking as much water as you can, if not your lips will be totally dry. Believe me.

ADVICE FOR GIRLS:

I’m not trying to be judgmental, but I don’t think guys would do this things. If you guys wanna try this, its okay as well.

1.- Having eyebrows done: After the surgery you would not be able to do your eyebrows, it would be really painful if you even try it. Also it is not good for your nose health.

2.- Try not to use makeup: I know some girls can struggle a lot with this, but leaving your face specifically your nose and it surroundings without makeup can be beneficial for you and your nose will appreciate it. This is basically because of the chemical substances that these products can contain.

3.- Try light odors, do not use very fragrant perfumes cause they can be really strong odors for your nose.

4.- Your nails cannot be done: This is a medical restriction when having a surgery.

5.- Remove the unwanted facial hair, if you want of course, after the surgery it can become a little difficult to get rid of those baby hairs.

Remember that this things listed above are just things that personally helped me. Dont be afraid before the surgery. It is going to be a very satisfying moment when you see the results. Dont forget that you are beautiful or handsome the way you are. If you want more advice tell me on the comments. Good Luck!

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Anxiety & Anger

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Two feelings that are extremely hard to control. They can make you turn into another person. Someone who you actually don’t want to be. Controlling them, it’s just as difficult as jumping from an airplane when you’re afraid of heights.

I’ve already written something about my anxiety and how to deal with it. But gosh, recently I’ve been having a lot of trouble controlling anger. I’ve always been a girl who hides emotions, cause for me that’s what makes me feel stronger and not vulnerable at all. I know that maybe I should not be that way. Keeping every single feeling to myself and do not let me cry when I want to, can provoke some harm in future times. I’ve tried a lot of things to keep away my anger. Sometimes it works, others, not that much.

Have you had that feeling you just want to leave everything and run away? Well, that happens to me when I cannot control myself, specifically my emotions. I know sometimes we want to do some things and they turn out to be misplaced. Maybe faith do not want us to have those things, or maybe we just need to try harder to get them.

Along the time, I’ve been researching ways to control inner self-control and emotions that can make us make bad decisions. I’ve found interesting things that may or may no help us all. I list them down below.

  1. Think before you speak or make a decision: Sometimes when we are angry, we don’t visualize every single detail of the situation that is happening. We just focus on the problem that is bothering us. We need to see ahead the bubble and do not let emotion take our decisions. Cause later we will regret them.
  2. Try a relaxing bath: After a hard day of work or school or college. Take a relaxing bath put on some music that you like the most and create that background that gets you in a good mood.
  3. Make a Playlist: Lots of people tend to be music lovers. Well, if you are one of them try making a new playlist that will make you smile as soon as you hear it. Dont try to list popular music, list the kind of music that you totally and actually like, Your mood can change with good music.
  4. Pamper yourself: Even if you are a girl or a guy try to embrace yourself. Nothing can give you the power to love yourself. Just YOU. Try exfoliation your face, put on mask, try a new lotion, eat a candy or chocolate that you love. Be Creative.
  5. Go out with Friends: Use that negativity and turn it into posivity. Go out and have fun like there is no tomorrow.

 

Teenage Love 

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Sometimes we don’t choose who will be our first kiss, who we will be in love with, who will make our world disappear. Sometimes it can be a stranger come out of nowhere, sometimes it can be a friend, sometimes it can be your closest pal.

Teenage love; it can be rough sometimes, it makes us feel happy, angry, sad & a lot of more things. Thinking about love at this age is just as difficult as a calculus test, even more difficult sometimes. We want to know what the other one is thinking. What does he or she feels. We want to know the truth. We want to know what is really going on. But we need to be honest, that does not happens that often at this age. Several times it’s just a quick moment that feels good and that’s all.

Love is one of the most powerful things in the world, at the end of the day it’s what keep us humans. Love can be criticized in many ways, but what some people don’t understand is that teenage love can be a little bit rushed out but it can be real in certain cases. There are teenagers that have experienced what real love is. They have had the opportunity of learning along their short life, maybe luck, maybe destiny. And they have had a really good time.

On the other hand, there are the ones that at a short age don’t really know the meaning of love. Some of us think it’s all about having someone around and brag about it. I certainly don’t know what real love is. I think it depends a lot on how it has been presented to each one of us since we were little. A true definition is made up by every single one of us.

Lets be honest. How many times we’ve said were in love with someone without knowing that person that much? At some point everyone, no matter the age, has had imagined a whole story with the crush of the moment. Awkward, but true.

Teenage love is one of the most amazing things to experiment. We can make mistakes. We learn from those first loves. We become a better person for the other. We try our best. Enjoy every single moment of love in your life, no matter if it is short or long. What matters is that you actually get the most out of it.

Love like you’ve never been hurt.

Stressed Out

We all have this days when we don’t know how to feel. We have a lot of stuff stuck in our head. Everything is going on the wrong way, not the one we want. Times passes us by & we don’t even notice about it. We are so occupied trying to fix our feelings, our thoughts, our little messed up world that we forget about living. We spend too much time thinking about what would life be, if we’ve done something different. But the truth is that we can’t fix what we did. Past is just right there, in the past. It’s GONE. We just have to get over it, no matter how hard it is to.

I’ve been waken up lots of nights trying to figure out things from my life, but to be honest the only thing I can do is just stare at the roof & imagine the life which I would rather prefer to have. Ruining all my sleeping schedule out for nothing.

I know that at some point all this stuff sucks. Nevertheless we have to stop willing for things we can’t have. Let’s focus on things that actually matters. Yeah; we lost a lover, we’ll find a new one; we lost a friend, if he/she was a real one they would not have leave us behind; we lost a scholarship, work harder & show them you’re better than that.

Sometimes been a teenager can be really devastating, but crap we have to get up, wash our faces and show the world what are we made of. If we just cry all day and night, we’re just showing how sensitive we are and belive it or not we’re actually giving up & letting them win.

Facing things can be a hurtful process but at the end we’ll see a great result & nothing will be more satisfying than realising how much you’ve done and achieved during those whole years of effort and those late nights with coffee cups beside our beds.

Life can give us lots of punches on the stomach, but at the end we learn from them. Thanks to all those mistakes we can be the person who we are now. We learn from them. We expect not to repeat them, but we are all humans & we definately have the right to mess up things, make mistakes. But mostly to realize that we are more than just a simple word or action or name or whatever, because we are awesome just the way we are.

Love, Rosie

Love, Rosie

We all have that one movie that makes us feel a lot of things at the same time. Well, for me Love, Rosie is personally one of the most amazing movies I’ve ever seen. It shows how a truly friendship can beat any obstacle no matter what. Love is the weapon against everything. This movie does not only refers to love as in a romantic way, it includes family, passion and friendship. Different perspectives of what love can be, are shown.

Family love; because despite the mistake she made, they all stick together till the end. Family will always be there for you, no matter how hard the situation can get.

Couple love; sometimes it doesn’t last as much as people want to, it can be hard to find and to keep that spark alive.

Friendship love; one of the most difficult types of love may I add. Finding someone you can share everything with, can be hard. Now a days, finding a real friend can be very unlikely. We don’t know who we can trust and who is not good enough for us. Sometimes feelings get along the way, romantic ones, not the ones that friends are supposed to feel. Friendship can be ruined because of different feelings about each other, one may feel something stronger than the other one. Misunderstandings happen and they change everything.

I love this movie, actually it is my favorite one. Why? Because I can relate to it. I’ve had lots of guy friends, they all help me, be there when I need them, but at the end feelings came across and those ruin everything. I know that it is supposed to be kept the way it is, no matter what. Best friends will always stick together, but when stronger romantic love comes on the way it changes. I also relate on the family part. I’ve always been supported by them, no matter what, they are there for me. And finally i relate on the fact that I’m able to feel loved by my friends and family and there’s no way I’ll like to change that.

“No matter where you are or what you are doing or who you are with, I will always honestly, truly, completely love you” -Rosie.

Hidden Emotions

Many people have called me “insensitive”, “You have no feelings”, “You don’t care about anything or anyone besides yourself.” I’ve listen all of those at least 1000 times on the last years.

The thing is; I hide my emotions for myself, sharing them it’s like failing me. I do not show my feelings to anyone, if I do they must be really important and trustable. When I cry, it’s because I’m really overwhelmed and I need to. Is not that I like to do it that often. There are those days when I’m just sick of all the crap people throw, when I cannot hold anymore my emotions.

I don’t know if it’s just me, but sometimes I just feel like my chest is going to explode internally. I can actually feel all my emotions at once. Then the crying and crisis starts. My breath starts to fail a little, I feel a hole all over me, I cannot remember why I’m feeling that way. It just happens. I just need a movie, a serie, a book or a song and it will start.

My mom says “Hiding your feelings and keeping them, its bad for your health. You overwhelm your body and until you can’t keep those emotions there, is when your break. Stop that. Remember is for your own good.” I know she’s right, but I just feel vulnerable when I show something. I just can’t let it happen. I know it might sound crazy, but I’ve tried and instead of feeling better it gets worst.

My advice; find a way to give away those hidden emotions, we all need somehow to let them out. I will keep searching the best option for me and not overwhelm my body. I hope we all find our way out for this.

I may be quiet, but there is a lot on my mind

Click Play, Watch & Learn 

 

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Movies; a constant part of my life, I love watching movies they help me to forget about the reality I’m living, with a little click on play Im discovering a new whole world created by people which their only purpose is to entertain us. When I’m bored the thing that I love to do the most is watching a movie, and yeah sometimes I have the big struggle of finding which movie I should see.

Sometimes what I like to do is search for a good one on internet, btw it actually takes a lot of time, sometimes I have the feeling of which movie I should watch, its bizarre but at the end of it, the one that I choose, is actually the one that I needed for the moment, if I’m having a rough time and then I just start watching a movie, I actually can relate with it, my mood changes and my perspective change too.
I’ve learned a lot of things from every single movie I’ve watched, for me every story has its own meaning for everyone, recently I’ve been watching more comedy and romantic movies, and they just made me realize that there’s time for everything you want, sometimes what you want is not what you need, but other times what you need is something you’re not looking for at all.

Movies, actors, stories, scripts they’re magic created for us, the society, they let us escape from our reality for an hour or two or three as much as the story needs to last, they teach us things about life, they makes us realize things we’ve actually never think of, for me there’s nothing better than a good movie at the end of the week.

Netflix, Tv, Online Web Sites, wherever you watch movies are an amazing tool that can open our minds and make us part of different worlds and open our perspective about life.

If you wanna check out some movies I love the most, I actually have a collection of it, I’ll leave the link down below, & if you have more suggestions don’t be afraid and comment the as well, I would love to watch those movies you guys love.

“A movie is worth it, if at the end of it you’ve learned something you never thought about” – A.R.

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