Two guys, one girl, a lot of emotions and million of discussions, in a year a lot of things can happen, a lot of things can change, an important relation can be ruined and you can realize who your real friends are.
- My best guy friend – Jence
- The cousin – Matthew
- Author, Me – Clarissa
- My best girl friend – Danielle
There was this boy, one of my best friends, we were talking as usually at the middle of the night, when he started to talk about a guy just like that so randomly, he told me lots of good things about him, his experiences and where he had already traveled. The next day, it was school day, we talked normally until he mentioned that guy again, we were in french class when he told me that the guy he was talking about yesterday was his cousin and he was going to get into our high school, at first I just say that it was cool, because of the things he told me it seemed that he was an interesting guy, then I just realized that I knew a lot about him without even knowing who he was, so I asked why he told me all of that, and he just said that he wanted me to be his cousins friend.
Days pass by until we saw this guy presenting the entrance exam in the guiding counselors office, I just commented that the guy was good-looking, when we kept walking to our classroom Jence told me that he was his cousin, so I just shut and keep walking until we arrived to the classroom when Jence tried to talk to me about what I said before, I just changed the conversation talking about a movie. At the end of the day Jence sent me a message asking if I really thought that his cousin was good-looking, I had to admit that he really was, so I just said yes, and that was the key word that changed everything…
We all have that one best friend that appeared from nowhere, the one that you never thought that could actually be your best friend, and if you haven’t… wait for it, one day, the most unexpected day someone will walk from that door & a new friendship would start going on.
Here’s a list which I made out by researching on We Heart It & Pinterest, maybe this can be your best friend goals wish list too:
- Buy matching bracelets or necklaces.
- Have a movie marathon.
- Go on a shopping spree.
- Fishtail your hair together.
- Have a sleepover.
- Have photo shoots together.
- Start a book of memories.
- Go on a road trip.
- Recreate Best Friends photos from Social Media.
- Have a road trip.
- Have a paint fight.
- Use the same outfit.
- Have a fancy dinner on Christmas.
- Make a Karaoke afternoon.
- Have a midnight conversation about your feelings.
- Let each other chose an outfit & use it for a day, without changing anything.
- Do each others makeup.
- Get matching tattoos (including henna ones 😂)
This can also be for a group of friends, or family, it’s doesn’t really matter,what matter is that you have a great time with all your pals, have fun & enjoy every single minute you’re surrounded by all of those who you love.
If you have more goals to complete go ahead, also you can comment down below and share me some of the goals you want me to include. Also I create a collection on my We Heart It Account, if you wanna check it out I’ll leave the link here Best Friend Goals.
Don’t give up if you haven’t found those best friends, one day you’ll realize that they’ve been there all the time, just take a minute and figure out who the real ones are.
There’s something in life called fate, and it’s when we don’t know what can happen to us, we don’t know who’s going to stay, who’s going to leave, who’s going to let us down, sometimes we just have to keep living our life and let some things happen.
Today I had like a kind of fight with my best friend & I just wanted to run and throw everything away. There’s nothing as complicated as trying to be something more with your best friend, at first I thought that it actually wasn’t that difficult at all, but for now I can say, for real that is something extremely difficult.
Loving someone this much can bring some complications into a relationship, best friends are supposed to stay that way, but to be honest sometimes one of them would fall for the other and maybe at a wrong time. We should be ready for things like this, I honestly didn’t knew what to do, I was so stuck with someone else that I didn’t figure things out about how I was really feeling. Today when he told me that nothing more was going to happen between us because he didn’t have the plan of having a girlfriend just broke me, and I don’t know if it was because I actually thought that my best friend would never do that, he would never break me or because I really like him & I actually wanted to try something with him.
I still don’t know what to think, or how to feel, maybe time will decide what is best for me, for him, for us, but for now maybe all I have to do is forget about everything that happened and just talk like best friends are supposed to talk.