I know what you are feeling. I know that you feel powerless. I know that the feeling of not knowing what to do, it’s tiring. And the fact that you want that person back no matter what is tearing your world apart. I know that you think that I actually don’t know the pain you’re struggling with. But I’ve experience that on my own way too.
Many people tend to say you have to forget about the person you’re missing. In part they are right. But it’s hard and is not so easy let go someone that made you feel loved and fearless. But with time and self care you’ll achieve it.
Experience makes you stronger. You learn along the years. You start knowing which kind of people you need to avoid. And which ones you can count on. The process of forgetting starts with forgiving. There’s something called mental peace. Mental peace is achieved when you’re fine with yourself. You start giving yourself more time, you are the priority.
When you think you can’t forgive. Breath and repeat “I forgive you, because I love myself. I forgive you, because I want to feel better. I forgive you because, I want to be free. I forgive you, because I love myself.”
Everyone has to live what they’ve lived. It’s the path of life. Even if it’s rough and horrible. There’s a rainbow in the end of the road. If you believe you’ll find that peace and you’ll feel better. You don’t depend on anyone, just yourself and you never have to feel bad because of someone who let you down. It’s part of growing up and you’ll get over it. Take your time. Everyone is different and heals in different timing. But be sure that once YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN FORGIVE AND YOU DESERVE BETTER, YOU’LL FEEL FEARLESS AGAIN. Let that person go. You’ll find someone that will fill your heart again. Don’t be afraid to let those feelings go away. It’s okay. You’ll be okay.
Be patient and keep being strong. With time you’ll start experiencing what mental peace is. You’ll feel free and good again. Don’t worry, everything is going to be alright. Just believe in yourself and the major force that you believe in, will help you along to chose the right path.
The first thing I look when I wake up in the morning, it’s my hair. Most of you would think that I love it. But here’s the heartbreaking story. I used to hate my hair completely. Because of the way it looked, the way it was cut, the way the color was not as beautiful as other girls hair. I really, really HATED it.
Then one magical video popped out from my Facebook feed. It was a commercial about some girls that had cancer, and as a consequence they didn’t have hair. When I saw it, I wanted to cry so hard and so loud. I didn’t realise before that not everyone has the possibility of having hair, because of a disease or other problems. I could not believe or forgive myself for wasting my time hating my hair, when all I had to do was just learn how to make it look better, cause it is unique and beautiful the way it is.
After I saw the video. I proposed myself to start making changes. And start embracing the hair god gave me. I invite every single one of you guys, to love the way you are without any prejudices. You are beautiful the way you are and you just have to make your most beautiful features pop. I never judged my hair again after that video and I’m really grateful that god or the universe put it on my feed so I could see it and change my mind about my hair. Now I have beautiful and healthy hair, Ive also managed to have my own routine and it has worked pretty well so far.
I leave you guys the link of the video, if you want to see it. Embrace who you are. 💋
Now a days I’ve seen a lot of hate on social media. People just talk without thinking what they are going to say. Mean comments are all over the web. Countries are losing their own minds and treat foreign people with hate and violence. Kids do not enjoy going to school because of the fear they have to bullies. Teens prefer to stay at home than explore the world.
Kindness should be winning against hate. But it seems that negativity and bad thoughts are powerful that positivity and happiness.
I’m not going to judge the world. But what I’m seeing is making me feel worried, cause many people is suffering. A lot of them at a young age. Suicide has increased a lot over the years and this really need to stop. Every single one of us is worthy, no matter the skin color, the height, the weigh, the country they’re from, they’re sexuality. Those are superficial things. What is really important is their soul and their actions, that is what matters, NOT THE WAY THEY LOOK!
YOU’RE BEAUTIFUL, YOU’RE SMART, YOU’RE AMAZING AND YOU CAN CHANGE THE WORLD WITH POSITIVE THOUGHTS AND KINDNESS, YOU’RE AWESOME DO NOT FORGET THAT!
Do not let anyone tell you how to dress, or what to eat. Do not let anyone tell you that you’re not intelligent or you are not smart enough. Cause believe me you are. Don’t let the haters discourage you, instead ignore them, let them talk.
I know it’s hard, not to let people let you down and make you feel less. Believe me, I’ve been there too. But whenever I think about those horrible things they have said to me, I just try to breath and thank those words, because I know that I’m not the way they say I am. I know what I’m worth. I know the way I act and most importantly I love myself for who I am. Don’t let strangers words define you, cause at the end the only words that should mind to you are your own. I believe in love, kindness, positivity and a better world.
With all my love, me.
Society stereotypes might be hard to follow sometimes, girls must watch romance and comedy movies or series and leave aside action ones. On the other hand boys must watch action and thriller ones and leave aside romance movies and series out of their way.
Talking about movies, it might not be that judged if a girl or a boy watch a specific movie, but when we talk about series, perspectives change. I’ve heard a lot of disagreement when a guy says he’s watching Pretty Little Liars or Teen Wolf instead of watching House of Cards or Spartacus, and vice versa. There are many series that are supposed to be just for girls and other just for boys, because of the content, the story or the romantic outcome.
Nevertheless, we can watch whatever we want to watch, if we as girls like horror movies or action series without drama its okay, we all have different preferences and perspectives about life, and if you boys like drama and you’re a romantic guy go ahead and watch those tv shows that please you. We don’t have to be afraid to talk about things we love, every single human being has their own interests and ways to express themselves.
Nobody has to tell us what to do or watch or listen, we can make our own choices, and watching different genre movies or series do not define us as who we are, they are just one little part of us that might or not reward us with some knowledge no matter if you are a girl or a guy.